Confident Voices: Lessons from Gitonga

Gitonga was a happy, playful child who loved football more than books. But when it came to speaking in front of others, he would freeze. He didn’t like being the center of attention and preferred to stay quiet. He felt safer when no one was watching.

One day, Gitonga’s class teacher gave everyone an assignment: “Next week, each of you will speak to the class about something you love.” It sounded exciting to some, but not to Gitonga. The thought of standing in front of the class made his stomach turn.

Gitonga panicked. “But I don’t like speaking in public,” he whispered to his best friend Kiaro.

Kiaro gave him a reassuring smile. “You can do it—just talk about football,” he said.

With Kiaro’s help, Gitonga prepared a short talk about football—his favourite thing. He practiced in front of the mirror, then in front of his family. They all cheered him on at home. “You’re ready,” his mother said with a hug.

On the big day, his voice was shaky at first, but he kept going. He remembered to breathe and focus on what he loved. Slowly, the nerves faded. By the end of his talk, his classmates clapped loudly. “You did it, Gitonga!” his teacher said proudly.

Gitonga beamed with pride for trying something he once feared. “That’s how confidence grows—one brave step at a time.”

You Can Build Confidence Too!

Here are 6 ways to grow your speaking confidence, just like Gitonga:

1. Talk About What You Know

Pick a topic you enjoy! It’s easier to speak when you know what you're talking about.

2. Practice Makes Better

Start small—greet people, answer questions, and practice little speeches at home.

3. Believe in Yourself

Even if your voice shakes, keep going! Being brave is more important than being perfect.

4. Listen and Learn

If someone gives you advice, say thank you! It helps you grow and get better.

5. Celebrate Every Effort

Each time you speak up, give yourself a cheer. You’re building your confidence muscle!

6. Let Confidence Grow Daily

Try to speak up a little each day. It gets easier with time, support, and practice.

Remember:

Your voice is powerful.

Your ideas are important.

And YOU are brave—even when you feel a little scared.

Just like Gitonga, you can learn to speak up, shine bright, and become a strong leader!

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